This is a selection of books and websites that I often recommend to clients who are looking for additional information on a specific topic. 


American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists -

The Kinsey Institute - Sexuality Information Page (provides links to a wide range of sexuality resources) -

Woman’s Touch:


Sex Matters for Women - Foley, Kope & Sugrue

Discovering your Sexual Style - Barry & Emily McCarthy

Men's Sexual Health: Fitness for satisfying sex - McCarthy & Metz

The New Male Sexuality - Bernie Zilbergeld

For Women Only: A revolutionary guide to overcoming sexual dysfunction and reclaiming your sex life - Berman & Berman

Sex Made Simple - Barry McCarthy

The Guide to Getting it On - Paul Joannides

The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good vibrations guide to great sex for everyone - Carol Queen & Shar Rednour


Come as You Are - Emily Nagoski

Rekindling Desire: A step by step program to help low-sex and no-sex marriages - Barry & Emily McCarthy

Enduring Desire: Your guide to lifelong intimacy - Metz & McCarthy

The Return of Desire: A guide to rediscovering your sexual passion - Gina Ogden

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence - Esther Perel

The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the inner sources of passion and fulfillment - Jack Morin

Love Worth Making: How to have ridiculously great sex in a long-lasting relationship - Stephen Snyder  

Not Always in the Mood: The new science of men, sex and relationships - Sarah Hunter Murray


PFLAG - Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbian and Gays -

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Health -

Sexual Intimacy for Women: A guide for same-sex couples - Glenda Corwin

Beyond Acceptance: Parents of lesbians and gays talk about their experience - Griffin & Wirth

Where's My Book: A guide for transgendered and gender non-conforming youth, their parents, & everyone else - Linda Gromko

Trans Bodies Trans Selves - Erickson-Schroth 


Coping with Premature Ejaculation – Metz & McCarthy

Coping with Erectile Dysfunction – Metz & McCarthy


A Women’s Guide to Overcoming Sexual Fear & Pain – Goodwin & Agronin


The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: How couples can dramatically enhance their pleasure, intimacy and health - Chia, Chia, Abrams & Abrams

The Elusive Orgasm: A women's guide to why she can't and how she can orgasm - Vivienne Cass

Becoming Clitorate - Dr. Laurie Minitz 


When Someone You Love Is Kinky - Donnie Easton & Catherine Liszt

The New Topping Book - Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton

The New Bottoming Book - Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton

Sensuous Magic - Pat Califia

Different Loving - Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs, and William Brame


The Porn Trap – Wendy & Larry Maltz


More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory - Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert

Designer Relationships: A guide to happy monogamy, positive polyamory, and optimistic open relationships - Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson

The Ethical Slut: A practical guide to polyamory, open relationships and other adventures - Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy

Opening Up: A guide to creating and sustaining open relationships - Tristan Taormino  


Healing Sex - Staci Haines

The Sexual Healing Journey: A guide for survivors of sexual abuse – Wendy Maltz

The Courage to Heal – Bass & Davis

Trauma and Recovery - Judith Herman


Loving Bravely - Alexandra Solomon 

Hold Me Tight – Sue Johnson

Love Sense - Sue Johnson

Fighting for your marriage - Markman, Stanley & Blumberg

The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work – John Gottman

Getting the Love You Want - Harville Hendrix

Passionate Marriage: Keeping love and intimacy alive in emotionally committed relationships - David Schnarch


After the Affair: Healing the pain and rebuilding trust after a partner has been unfaithful – Spring 

Getting Past the Affair: A program to help you cope, heal and move on together or apart - Synder, Baucom & Coop


From Diapers to Dating: A parent's guide to raising sexually healthy children from infancy to middle school - Debra Haffner

It's Perfectly Normal: A book about changing bodies, growing up, sex and sexual health - Robbie Harris 

It's so amazing! A book about eggs, sperm, birth, babies and families - Robbie Harris 

It's Not the Stork! A book about girls, boys, babies, bodies, families and friends - Robbie Harris

Sex and Sensibility: The thinking parent's guide to talking sense about sex - Deborah Roffman 

Talk to Me First: Everything you need to know to become your kids “go to” person about sex - Deborah Roffman

Sex is a Funny Word: A book about bodies, feelings and YOU - Corey Silverberg

S.E.X: The all-you-need-to-know sexuality guide to get you through your teens and twenties - Heather Corinna


Program in Integrative Medicine (PRISM) for Women and Girls with Cancer -

Women Cancer Sex - Anne Katz

Men Cancer Sex - Anne Katz 


Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) -

Sex Ed Library -

Center for Disease Control and Prevention - Provides some great sexual health information

Sexual Health -

Sexual Violence -

Sexually Transmitted Diseases -


Behind the 8 Ball: A recovery guide for the families of gamblers – Berman & Siegal

Don’t leave it to chance: A guide for families of problem gamblers – Federman, Drebing & Krebs

The Heart of Addiction – Lance Dodes


Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends – Bruce Fisher

The Truth about Children and Divorce: Dealing with emotions so you and your child can thrive – Robert Emery


When Partners Become Parents: The big life change for couples– Philip & Carolyn Cowan

Siblings without Rivalry: How to help your children live together so you can live too – Faber & Mazlish

Nurtureshock: New thinking about children – Bronson & Merryman

How to Talk so your Kids will Listen and Listen so Your Kids will Talk - Faber & Mazlish


Feeling Good Handbook – David Burns


When Panic Attacks – David Burns

The Anxiety & Panic Workbook - Edmund Bourne


Self Compassion - Kristin Kneff


Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with ADD – Hallowell & Ratey

You Mean I Am Not Lazy, Crazy or Stupid?: The classic self-help book for adults with ADD – Kelly, Ramundo & Hallowell